Nervous Knots

True Confessions and Crochet

I had a nightmare: on the Duggars, Christianity, and abuse

Wow. Just wow. Fear of causing pain to certain family members is what kept me silent for so long. I’m grateful to know I’m not the only victim of passive aggressive manipulation.

Karrie higgins

“I had a nightmare,” my father-in-law says, his voice hoarse and weak after a stem cell transplant for lymphoma. “That Rod climbed through the window of my hospital room and attacked me.”

He and my husband are chatting on Skype, something they never used to do until his father got sick. In any other context, it might look like redemption: a son and father healing a rift. But already, I am suppressing an urge to yank the laptop from my husband’s hands.

Rod was a felon my husband’s parents invited into their home for a faith-based Restorative Justice program. A felon who manipulated my husband into playing the “wee wee game” with him in the bathtub, amongst other things. The “wee wee game” is exactly what it sounds like: genital fondling.

My husband combs his fingers through this curls, a tic he acquired ever since he landed in the hospital…

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This entry was posted on June 6, 2015 by in Abuse and Recovery.
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